Smile Always Spotlight: Once Upon a Time

[I've decided, in an effort to keep me writing regularly, to have a weekly post titled "Smile Always Spotlight". In this post, I will pick something that makes me smile and write about it. It can be a movie, book, person, food, anything I want to spotlight. I think it'll be a lot of fun and similar to the way I would write on my old blog. Hope you enjoy.]


Smile Always Spotlight:

I started watching Once Upon A Time before my mission with my sister-in-law, Nichole. Every Sunday we would meet at her house and watch the hour long episodes. As I got closer to leaving on my mission, I stopped watching much TV and thus stopped watching this show. Since I've been home, I've been using Netflix a lot. Guess what show was available on Netflix? ...Yep, Once Upon A Time. I avoided it for about a month and half. Finally, I gave in and soon I was addicted.

Upon watching it again, I found that I really, really liked the show. There is something magical about it that keeps me coming back for more. I got caught up quite quickly... and now I have to wait until March to see a new episode. Oh well.

Once Upon A Time:

Here's a brief synopsis from me: Emma Swan has been alone her whole life until one day someone knocks on her door. Her long lost son, Henry, is on the other side of the door. He's on a mission to get Emma back to Storybrooke, Maine.

Storybrooke, Maine... the town that didn't exist 28 years ago. It turns out that Storybrooke is the home of every fairytale character you've ever heard about. The Evil Queen, in a fit of revenge and fury, sent everyone there. Now they are stuck there with no memory of who they are and where they came from. And for 28 years, time pretty much stood still. Until Emma decides to stay...

It turns out Emma's parents are in Storybrooke... with now memory of who she is or who each other are. Yep, Snow White and Prince Charming didn't get their Happily Ever After. They're separated from each other and their daughter.

Don't worry though... it all gets sorted out eventually... and there are a lot of adventures along the way.

What makes me smile about Once Upon A Time? 

1) Prince Charming.

Need I say more?

2) Fairytales.

As a little girl, I LOVED Disney movies. I loved the idea of a Happily Ever After. Having grown up just a bit, I realize that Happily Ever Afters require more work than they show in the movies. I do still believe that you can be happy but I recognize that it doesn't begin with meeting that "perfect" person or having all your problems be solved- let's be honest, never are you not going to have problems. Even if you have problems though, you can still be happy. I've learned and am still learning that. 

3) Magic.

Who wouldn't want a little magic now and then? However, we are reminded continually that all magic "comes with a price". 

4) True Love's Kiss.

This brings out the Hopeless Romantic in me. It also ties in with the Fairytales and Magic in the show. It's stated that True Love's Kiss can break any curse. I think that's what I loved about Disney movies... True Love's Kiss would bring the Princess's Happily Ever After. It made it seem so simple. All you have to do is find that one special person, share a kiss, and "whoosh" all your problems are resolved. I wish I still believed that was true. But real life is much more complicated than that. Something that Once Upon A Time shows us. Another reason I like it. Even though Snow White and Prince Charming fell in love, experienced True Love's Kiss, got married, and had a baby... they still had a TON of problems to deal with. Isn't that real life? And what's even better... is that they work on their problems... TOGETHER!! I think that's something that's lacking in the world today... couples working together to overcome their problems. Instead, the problems break up the couple because they think they can do it alone. Now, I've never been married so this is purely my own observations. However, it is something that I love about Once Upon A Time... they show a real life marriage (despite being between fairytale characters) and the problems (however realistic they may not be...) they have to work together to overcome them.

5) Family.

Once Upon A Time is all about family. And family is the most important social unit we can have. I like seeing Emma discover that on her journey in StoryBrooke. It makes the show even more awesome for me. 

There you go. Reasons why Once Upon A Time makes me smile. The show isn't perfect... no show is. But I enjoy it all the same. It speaks to the little girl who loves fairytales (as well as the Hopeless Romantic) within me. You can't go wrong with that.

Smile Always,

Chuck

Bonus Spotlight: 

Captain Hook!

He's not some slimy old guy with curly hair anymore... 

And as requested by Makae... here's Peter Pan... Turns out he's not quite the hero we thought he was... 

Stuck in Snow

A while back, I was pulling out of a driveway after a snowstorm. I was in my Mom's GMC Envoy in four wheel drive. The driveway was not yet plowed and it was out on a country road so the snow was pretty high. I tried backing straight out but ended up getting stuck; the back wheels were stuck spinning helplessly. In an effort to pack the snow down, I went forward again before going backwards. Several more attempts left me still stuck in the snow. A surge of panic settled in the pit of my stomach as I tried to find a way out of this driveway. In one last attempt to get out of the snow, I went forward at an angle and then revved the Envoy into reverse. I made it onto the road. The rush of adrenaline finally faded as I drove away.

 I'm at a point in my life where I feel like I'm stuck in the snow. I keep trying to move forward or backward but my wheels seem to be stuck spinning helplessly. I've been struggling with post mission blues and the anxiety and stress that comes with searching for a "grown-up" job in my chosen field. I'll have days where I feel like it's finally going my way. Then I'll have days where I feel weighed down by the heavy weight of self-inflicted pressures to be an adult. I know that a big part of the problem is that I'm not being patient. 

"I learned that patience was far more than simply waiting for something to happen- patience required actively working toward worthwhile goals and not getting discouraged when results didn't appear instantly or without effort... Patience means active waiting and enduring. It means staying with something and doing all that we can- working, hoping, and exercising faith; bearing hardships with fortitude, even when the desires of our hearts are delayed. Patience is not simply enduring; it is enduring well!" -Pres. Dieter F. Uchtdorf, Continue in Patience 

 Patience means active waiting and enduring. Patience isn't about sitting around waiting for stuff to happen. It means continuing to move forward with the hope that what you're waiting for is going to happen. That's so hard! Patience has to be one of the hardest virtues to develop. But it's also very worthwhile.

"We will get promptings of the Spirit when we have done everything we can, when we are out in the sun working rather than sitting back in the shade praying for direction on the first step to take. Revelation comes when the children of God are on the move. So we do all we can. Then we wait upon the Lord for His revelation. He has his own timetable." -Elder Dallin H. Oaks In His Own Time, In His Own Way 

Part of patience is trusting in the Lord and His time. Do I? I think I'm learning. Part of mortality is continual learning. We're not going to have all the answers at any one point of our lives. I certainly don't have all the answers. But I'm learning the answers I need now. Patience. Humility. Diligence. And enduring well even when I feel like I'm stuck in a snow bank with my wheels spinning as I try to get out. It'll all be worth it in the end.

I know it.

"Therefore, dearly beloved brethren, let us cheerfully do all things that lie in our power; and then may we stand still, with the utmost assurance, to see the salvation of God, and for his arm to be revealed." -Doctrine & Covenants 123:17

Smile Always,

Chuck

Chuck's Grand Adventure (With Trusty Co-pilot, Legs)

[Well, it's been weeks since I've posted anything. My days of silence are over!]

Introducing: Chuck's Grand Adventure (With Trusty Co-pilot, Legs)!!!! Do-do-dooo!

I did something crazy and went on my very first grown-up road trip. Okay, it doesn't sound that crazy. If you knew me, you'd know that I'm not one to do stuff like that. I was invited to California by a girl I worked with while on my mission and for once, I didn't say no. Legs (name has been changed to protect identity... hahaha), called me up and asked me to go with her. After seven different plans made, we finally ended up taking her car and just driving it to California.

Day 0.5

My Luggage on the train

I took the train from Ogden to Orem where Legs picked me up. We spent the night at a mutual companion's family's house.

The train arrived at the Orem station on time. I grabbed my bags (pictured on the left) and stepped out into the cold. Legs was running late. I watched as everyone around me got into waiting vehicles. I was soon left standing alone, freezing at the train station. Happy New Years Eve to me. Don't worry. Legs showed up soon enough. I got to see some fireworks in the meantime.

Legs and I hung out with the A family and played a game, watched the ball drop- or didn't because we were on the wrong channel, and then toasted with grape juice to a new year.

Day 1

We packed up the '72 Volkswagon Bug and headed to California.

St. George Temple

Aside from a short stop in St. George to eat and see the temple, the trip was pretty uneventful... until we got  about 20 miles outside of Las Vegas.

Poor broken down Bug. Smile Always Bug.

That's when it all went down. Legs was driving the car (I didn't know how to drive stick shift) when the car started to die. I tried not to panic but let's be honest, I was kind of freaked out. However, something I've learned is that freaking out will do nothing in a situation but stress me out. So I stayed calm as Legs pulled to the side of the road and checked out poor little Bug. After making some phone calls, AAA was on their way and we had nothing to do but wait. I was quite impressed that I remained so calm. It turns out, the poor little bug was simply out of gas. The gas gauge was broken. We promised each other to never let the gas get low again. That was nearly 2 hours of our trip spent on the side of the road. Despite the slow down, we both remained in good spirits.

 Day 2

The Pier

The Bug at the beach

We spent the night in Huntington Beach with the awesome W family. Legs and I went to the beach. While on my mission, I was unable to go to the beach. I was anxious to touch the sand and to see the waves. The sun was shining so bright and it felt so good to shed my coat and walk around in a pair of flip flops. I couldn't believe it was January and it felt so warm. We walked along the pier and people watched.

Huntington Beach, CA

Legs and I split up in the afternoon. I went to Lakewood to spend time with Sister R and then to spend the night with the M family in Garden Grove. I had such a great time just catching up and talking. I don't need much to keep me entertained. It felt so good to see these families that I served around and to spend time with them. I loved it.


Day 3

P and B with the Chocolate Factory Bear

Legs taking a picture of D, B, and P

Legs picked me up in Garden Grove and we headed back to Huntington Beach to meet with D and her kids, B and P. Legs and I were the ones to teach D the gospel and help her join the church. She is so awesome and I loved being able to see them. We ate lunch at this cool sidewalk cafe called the Sugar Shack. After lunch and a visit to Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory across the street, we walked a couple of blocks to the beach. This day was cool and the wind was chilly. But we still went out onto the beach and enjoyed the feel of the ocean. I didn't go anywhere near the water. I was cold enough as it was. But I still enjoyed the surprisingly warm sand between my toes.

Sister K, Legs, Sister A, and R eating Thai food

That evening, Legs and I babysat R for the W family. It was a lot of fun. We watched several hours of Curious George, ate Thai food with the Sister Missionaries, and played with 2 year old R. I enjoyed it immensely. R is such a funny kid. He loves Curious George and garbage trucks. I'm glad I got to hang out with him so much during my visit.





Day 4

L, Legs, K, J, and Chuck

The whole purpose of our visit was to go with K to the Los Angeles temple before she heads of on her mission to Denver Colorado. It was such a wonderful experience to see her and to see so many people I've come to love over the last 18 months. I'm grateful that I had the opportunity to be a part of such a special day. Thanks K for inviting me to be there. I'm glad I chose to came. Legs and I enjoyed our visit to the L.A. temple.

Me and Legs outside the LA Temple

 We enjoyed dinner with K and her family before we headed back to Huntington Beach to spend time with the W family again. I got to brush up on my Dr. Mario skills... meaning I stink at Dr. Mario. But it was fun to play against Brother W and then afterwards to play with Sister W.


Day 5

We attended three different wards. By attended, I mean we made brief visits to these wards. First it was what was formerly known as HB 4th ward (I don't remember the new name for it). Then we headed up to Westminster ward. Legs is quite the celebrity there. Everyone was so excited to see her. It was really cool to see the love those members have for her. Afterwards we rushed up to the El Dorado ward (my last ward) to drop something off to one of the sister missionaries. It felt really good to see some of my old companions (Sister M and Sister B) as well as other ward members. I got to hug some of them. Haha. And I got some phone numbers so we can keep in touch. I'm grateful we had the opportunity to stop by these wards and say hi to some of the members. I wish the trip was one that I could see everyone I wanted to but unfortunately we just didn't have the time.

Our original plan had us heading back to Utah on day 5 but we decided it would be best to spend one more night in California and leave in the morning. We stayed with Legs family, the W's (different from the HB Ws.) in Yorba Linda.

Day 6

We started our journey back to Utah. This time, there were no unexpected stops on the side of the freeway. I was so grateful to see the Utah sign.

Back in UTAH!!

Oh, and I learned/am learning how to drive a stick shift. Legs decided that I needed to know. I have to confess that I was quite nervous to get behind the wheel of the bug but I came on this trip for adventures. Learning to drive stick shift is certainly an adventure. Driving along the freeway wasn't so bad but when we had to stop in Las Vegas for gas... well we almost died a couple of times. Never fear though, Legs helped me out and we made it semi-safely to the gas station. She took over driving until we got to St. George. Then I pulled out of the gas station at St. George. I only killed the engine twice before getting on the freeway. And of course, Legs was filming the whole thing... great...


We stopped in Cedar City so I could visit my little brother and then we were back on the road. We rolled into Orem around 8 or 8:30-ish. Our Grand Adventure came to an end.

At the conclusion of this Grand Adventure, I feel like I learned so much. It was a much needed escape for me. Now that I'm home, I feel so refreshed and ready to start my future. It's not an easy journey to embark but after some time away, I feel like I have clarity.

I am so glad that I did something adventurous and out of the ordinary. It helped me more than I thought possible. Having Legs along for the adventure helped me as well. She's the kind of person that really pushes me to step outside my comfort zone (like learning to drive stick shift). She's always been that way with me, especially when we were companions. I am so grateful for her and for our friendship that we have.

There you go. That's the tale of my "Grand Adventure". I loved it! I hope you all have your own "Grand Adventures" to tell about. In the mean time...

Remember to Smile Always,

Chuck